The last few weeks have provided ample time for reflection. Who can ignore the holiday season, even more so when your Thanksgiving break is spent around the hospital bed of someone who has made such an impact on your life. Two weeks ago today my little sister Brooke had to go into the hospital. She has had recurring bouts of intestinal trouble that were dire enough this time to result in being flown to Phoenix, dealing with acute kidney failure, a 4 hour long emergency surgery that took most of her small intestine, and 2 weeks on a ventilator. It is times like this that perspective comes to you a little clearer. I am grateful to report that as of today, Brooke is off the ventilator and holding her own. She has an uphill battle in front of her, but things are looking a little brighter.
This and a few other circumstances have me reflecting on how focused our society can be on ourselves. So much so that we often miss each other. Have you noticed how everything seems more dramatic when it happens to you? I have so many things to do. I am so stressed out. I have so many demands on my time. I have to . . . I, I, I.
Joe and I attended Sacrament Meeting at a church near the hospital last week and was greeted by a smiling, friendly, humble man handing out programs. I had never met the man before, but could tell that he had had some challenges in life. I watched his face as he welcomed everyone who walked in that door. To us who were visiting, it was very comforting. However, as the meeting started there were a few people remaining who hadn't taken their seats. Two women in particular walked into the meeting hall. This gentleman donned his smile and quickly stood with his hand out reached to greet them and share a program. The two women didn't even notice the man, and quickly walked by leaving him standing there with his hand outstretched.
How often do we become so wrapped up in our own world that we fail to notice those around us?
My challenge to myself and you this Christmas season is to take some time to really see those that are around you. Then reach out to them. Maybe just with a smile and a hello, a handshake or a hug, ask "How are you?" and really want to know the answer. It is this kind of reaching out that generates the love that Christ come to this earth to teach us about.
Have a great Holiday Season.
